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| What is your gender and orientation? Homosexual male [ 9 ] [16.67%] Bisexual male [ 4 ] [7.41%] Heterosexual male [ 26 ] [48.15%] Homosexual female [ 1 ] [1.85%] Bisexual female [ 4 ] [7.41%] Heterosexual female [ 10 ] [18.52%] Total Votes: 54 |
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| Printable Version of Topic Click here to view this topic in its original format ExChristian.Net Open Forums > Sex and Christianity > Sexual Orientation Posted by: sexkitten Jun 21 2004, 06:25 PM Doug raised a good though in the other thread, so lets find out... Posted by: phoenix Jun 21 2004, 10:26 PM bisexual female i'm surprised we haven't had any lesbians yet. Posted by: Doug2 Jun 22 2004, 01:44 AM well, so far the results are very interesting. All the women are bisexual. Posted by: dogon Jun 22 2004, 01:58 AM QUOTE (phoenix @ Jun 21 2004, 10:26 PM) bisexual female i'm surprised we haven't had any lesbians yet. You have one now Posted by: sexkitten Jun 22 2004, 07:10 AM Welcome, dogon! Hope you have fun here. Posted by: MrSpooky Jun 22 2004, 09:30 PM WOW there are a lot of gay people. Posted by: Stargazer Jun 22 2004, 09:30 PM QUOTE (Doug2 @ Jun 22 2004, 07:44 PM) well, so far the results are very interesting. All the women are bisexual. Not anymore they're not. *raises hand* Heterosexual female right here. Posted by: Doug2 Jun 23 2004, 10:15 PM keeping this one at the top. Posted by: chrome Jun 23 2004, 11:23 PM QUOTE (dogon @ Jun 22 2004, 02:58 AM) QUOTE (phoenix @ Jun 21 2004, 10:26 PM) bisexual female i'm surprised we haven't had any lesbians yet. You have one now Welcome! Posted by: dogon Jun 24 2004, 02:31 AM QUOTE (chrome @ Jun 23 2004, 11:23 PM) QUOTE (dogon @ Jun 22 2004, 02:58 AM) QUOTE (phoenix @ Jun 21 2004, 10:26 PM) bisexual female i'm surprised we haven't had any lesbians yet. You have one now Welcome! Why, thank you. So nice to be here! Posted by: spidermonkey Jun 24 2004, 06:34 AM I'll give a definitive answer to this poll when I get the chance to get freaky with another female Posted by: bob Jun 24 2004, 12:33 PM I just love to hear women talk about sex. Posted by: Lokmer Jun 24 2004, 01:24 PM Yes - refreshing to hear people talk about sex in phrases longer than "dude, I could sooo do her." Having three younger chauvanistic brothers does have its trying times. Please, ladies, continue ;) -Lokmer Posted by: spidermonkey Jun 24 2004, 01:30 PM I love talking about sex. I'm freaky, what can I say..... Posted by: spamandham Jun 24 2004, 05:41 PM QUOTE (spidermonkey @ Jun 24 2004, 01:30 PM) I love talking about sex. I'm freaky, what can I say..... Why is that freaky? Posted by: raineshower Jun 24 2004, 05:49 PM I never knew how much I liked talking about sex til recently. It's been a rewarding experience. Posted by: spamandham Jun 24 2004, 05:55 PM QUOTE (raineshower @ Jun 24 2004, 05:49 PM) I never knew how much I liked talking about sex til recently. It's been a rewarding experience. That's part of the fun! The other part is the actual sex. Posted by: spidermonkey Jun 24 2004, 06:01 PM QUOTE (spamandham @ Jun 24 2004, 09:41 PM) QUOTE (spidermonkey @ Jun 24 2004, 01:30 PM) I love talking about sex. I'm freaky, what can I say..... Why is that freaky? I mean, I'm freaky in a GOOD way, if you know what I mean Posted by: Lokmer Jun 24 2004, 06:21 PM Hmm...it suddenly seems a bit warm in here.... -Lokmer Posted by: chrome Jun 24 2004, 09:37 PM QUOTE (spidermonkey @ Jun 24 2004, 07:01 PM) QUOTE (spamandham @ Jun 24 2004, 09:41 PM) QUOTE (spidermonkey @ Jun 24 2004, 01:30 PM) I love talking about sex. I'm freaky, what can I say..... Why is that freaky? I mean, I'm freaky in a GOOD way, if you know what I mean I hear ya. Posted by: YoungInFaithlessness Jun 24 2004, 10:46 PM QUOTE (spidermonkey @ Jun 24 2004, 10:34 AM) I'll give a definitive answer to this poll when I get the chance to get freaky with another female I put hetero female, but like i said in the other poll, I'm open-minded! Posted by: BlueGiant Jun 25 2004, 01:28 AM Put down homosexual male (in case this was not already obvious.) It is not as clear-cut as that, though. I am more like 90-95% gay with the 5-10% straight sort of attraction, technically bisexual, but to me small enough that I pretty much consider myself gay, and publicly identify myself as that, as it is easier in some ways. Hope that makes sense to others here. Posted by: spidermonkey Jun 25 2004, 07:23 AM QUOTE (Lokmer @ Jun 24 2004, 10:21 PM) Hmm...it suddenly seems a bit warm in here.... -Lokmer It's gettin' hot in here.....so take off all your clothes.... (sorry, I was channeling Nelly there for a second ) Posted by: Muggy Knubber Jun 25 2004, 09:55 AM Hetero male. Nothing against gay dudes. I'm just not attracted or curious. However, I'm envious of the gay male ability to say absolutely anything that is on their mind to a woman. Posted by: Lokmer Jun 25 2004, 11:22 AM QUOTE (Muggy Knubber @ Jun 25 2004, 10:55 AM) Hetero male. Nothing against gay dudes. I'm just not attracted or curious. However, I'm envious of the gay male ability to say absolutely anything that is on their mind to a woman. That's not just a gay male thing - straight men are allowed to do it too. Just do it unselfconsciously and honestly, and you'll do fine. Tact is important too. But seriously, one of the biggest mistakes men make with women is not treating them like real people. Most men treat them either as dirty objects or pure objects, at least in some measure. I'm a big fan of women - they are delightful creatures and often deeply sexy, but in the end they are people before and after everything else. Treat a woman-friend or just any woman with the same respect, playfulness, gravity, and honesty that you would treat anyone (or as you would wish to be treated) and you don't have to worry too much about "saying the wrong thing." After all, a woman who is so shallow that she'll toss you over after one verbal faux pas is the female variety of the man who won't talk to a woman whose tits aren't big enough for him. That kind of thing is unattractive in any gender, and a person like that is rarely worth anyone's serious attention. -Lokmer P.S. (Ladies, please feel free to correct me if I'm just totally out to lucnch here). Posted by: sexkitten Jun 25 2004, 12:53 PM QUOTE (Lokmer @ Jun 25 2004, 11:22 AM) QUOTE However, I'm envious of the gay male ability to say absolutely anything that is on their mind to a woman. P.S. (Ladies, please feel free to correct me if I'm just totally out to lucnch here). No problems with that here... I suspect, MK, that the reason gay men are able to say anything at all to women is mostly that they are not trying to be anything other than friends, and therefore are not compelled to hold back on something for fear that it will ruin their chances at sex or romance. Men and women often hold back and resort to little white lies and half-truths in the interests of keeping the peace in the midst of a love affair (or even a friendship). That doesn't work long term, and in the end hurts the people and the relationship far more than the honest truth would have. That said, I also suspect that at least some women are more accepting of criticism and brutal honesty from other women and gay men than they are from straight men because past experience taught them to see straight men as a threat. Posted by: chrome Jun 26 2004, 12:12 AM Lokmer, Sexkitten, you both are so right on, I have nothing better to add. Excellent posts! Posted by: Kaiser Soze Jul 1 2004, 02:38 AM Hhmmm, Male, last time I checked, Bi-sexual consisting of 30% hetero to 70% gay. The hetero part of me seems to be slowly decaying with age. I tend to find women more attractive in a social sense; loadsa fun to chat with, whereas males I find a have a more fervent aesthetic attraction for me. There's nothing quite like a well-sculpted male body. For me, the perfect male form is demonstratedby the Shao-Lin monks; although I'm not much of a fan of the baldness, the sheer elegance and litheness of their bodies is jaw-dropping. Posted by: TexasFreethinker Jul 1 2004, 02:09 PM Put me down as a gay male for now Posted by: Karl Jul 1 2004, 03:11 PM Hetero - either straight or bi females. Posted by: I Broke Free Jul 1 2004, 03:24 PM QUOTE (TexasFreethinker @ Jul 1 2004, 06:09 PM) Put me down as a gay male for now For now? Are you expecting some kind of change? Posted by: chrome Jul 1 2004, 05:19 PM That was my question too. Do we need an intervention? Posted by: TexasFreethinker Jul 1 2004, 05:32 PM QUOTE (I BROKE FREE @ Jul 1 2004, 06:24 PM) QUOTE (TexasFreethinker @ Jul 1 2004, 06:09 PM) Put me down as a gay male for now For now? Are you expecting some kind of change? I'm just keeping my options open (although I'm pretty far to the male and gay side of those two spectrums right now). Posted by: I Broke Free Jul 1 2004, 05:46 PM QUOTE (TexasFreethinker @ Jul 1 2004, 09:32 PM) QUOTE (I BROKE FREE @ Jul 1 2004, 06:24 PM) QUOTE (TexasFreethinker @ Jul 1 2004, 06:09 PM) Put me down as a gay male for now For now? Are you expecting some kind of change? I'm just keeping my options open (although I'm pretty far to the male and gay side of those two spectrums right now). Your partner might have something to say about this? Posted by: Grand Atheist Jul 2 2004, 10:09 AM Bi male. Oddly, you guys are the first to know... Strange that I would tell almost complete strangers, but not my friends and family... QUOTE Your partner might have something to say about this? Posted by: TexasFreethinker Jul 2 2004, 10:14 AM QUOTE (I BROKE FREE @ Jul 1 2004, 08:46 PM) QUOTE (TexasFreethinker @ Jul 1 2004, 09:32 PM) QUOTE (I BROKE FREE @ Jul 1 2004, 06:24 PM) QUOTE (TexasFreethinker @ Jul 1 2004, 06:09 PM) Put me down as a gay male for now For now? Are you expecting some kind of change? I'm just keeping my options open (although I'm pretty far to the male and gay side of those two spectrums right now). Your partner might have something to say about this? My sexual orientation wouldn't matter much to him (as long as I still found him desirable). A gender switch would probably be harder for him to handle, although he's been known to switch hit in the past. I really was just rebelling against being labelled since I think sexuality is too complex to fit under a couple of labels, and can be fluid in some folks as well. Posted by: TexasFreethinker Jul 2 2004, 10:18 AM I really am suprised that at this point (35 responses) there are 23% who identify as homosexual and 37% who are homosexual or bisexual. I wonder what's going on - are gays more likely to answer these types of survey question or to be exchristian? Have the Fab Five converted much of the world in one short season? Posted by: I Broke Free Jul 2 2004, 11:33 AM QUOTE (TexasFreethinker @ Jul 2 2004, 02:18 PM) Have the Fab Five converted much of the world in one short season? TF I have warned you so many times about giving away our secret plan! What is it going to take? Do I have to come down to Texas and give you a good thrashing? And by the way, I don't mind being pigeon holed as completely gay at all. I will never give up my desire to place my head on a rock hard chest for a pair of squishy boobs any day! Posted by: TexasFreethinker Jul 2 2004, 01:24 PM QUOTE (I BROKE FREE @ Jul 2 2004, 02:33 PM) Do I have to come down to Texas and give you a good thrashing? Chad would like a thrashing. Posted by: chrome Jul 2 2004, 04:56 PM QUOTE (I BROKE FREE @ Jul 2 2004, 12:33 PM) QUOTE (TexasFreethinker @ Jul 2 2004, 02:18 PM) Have the Fab Five converted much of the world in one short season? TF I have warned you so many times about giving away our secret plan! What is it going to take? Do I have to come down to Texas and give you a good thrashing? And by the way, I don't mind being pigeon holed as completely gay at all. I will never give up my desire to place my head on a rock hard chest for a pair of squishy boobs any day! Agenda? I don'tknow anything about an agenda... Posted by: chrome Jul 2 2004, 04:57 PM QUOTE (TexasFreethinker @ Jul 2 2004, 02:24 PM) QUOTE (I BROKE FREE @ Jul 2 2004, 02:33 PM) Do I have to come down to Texas and give you a good thrashing? Chad would like a thrashing. Chad is a bad boy. Posted by: sexkitten Jul 2 2004, 05:37 PM QUOTE (chrome @ Jul 2 2004, 04:57 PM) QUOTE (TexasFreethinker @ Jul 2 2004, 02:24 PM) QUOTE (I BROKE FREE @ Jul 2 2004, 02:33 PM) Do I have to come down to Texas and give you a good thrashing? Chad would like a thrashing. Chad is a bad boy. You guys are turning me on. Now... where's that video camera? Posted by: Kaiser Soze Jul 5 2004, 02:56 AM *Breaks out the whips and the leather attire* Posted by: chrome Jul 5 2004, 09:51 PM *runs to the phone to call the camera crew* Posted by: biggles7268 Jul 6 2004, 04:04 AM Posted by: raineshower Jul 7 2004, 06:36 AM Oh please stop. No don't stop! Posted by: Kaiser Soze Jul 9 2004, 02:30 AM In the words of the Baby-Eating Bishop of Bath and Wells: "I am a colossal pervert; no form of sexual depravity is too low for me: animal vegetable or mineral; I'll do anything to anything." In reality, men and women are as far as I go, although the mineral thing sounds interesting.... Posted by: Muggy Knubber Jul 9 2004, 10:06 AM QUOTE (sexkitten @ Jun 25 2004, 12:53 PM) QUOTE (Lokmer @ Jun 25 2004, 11:22 AM) QUOTE However, I'm envious of the gay male ability to say absolutely anything that is on their mind to a woman. P.S. (Ladies, please feel free to correct me if I'm just totally out to lucnch here). No problems with that here... I suspect, MK, that the reason gay men are able to say anything at all to women is mostly that they are not trying to be anything other than friends, and therefore are not compelled to hold back on something for fear that it will ruin their chances at sex or romance. Men and women often hold back and resort to little white lies and half-truths in the interests of keeping the peace in the midst of a love affair (or even a friendship). That doesn't work long term, and in the end hurts the people and the relationship far more than the honest truth would have. That said, I also suspect that at least some women are more accepting of criticism and brutal honesty from other women and gay men than they are from straight men because past experience taught them to see straight men as a threat. I think you may have misunderstood me. I DO say what is on my mind to women, I just don't get away with it as easily as gay dudes do. That's all. If I tell my girlfriend she has put on a few pounds, her clothing is out of style or altogether uninteresting, or that her hair needs help, I get called an asshole. If her gay cousin tells her exactly the same thing, she wants his advise. Posted by: sexkitten Jul 9 2004, 10:13 AM QUOTE (Muggy Knubber @ Jul 9 2004, 10:06 AM) QUOTE (sexkitten @ Jun 25 2004, 12:53 PM) QUOTE (Lokmer @ Jun 25 2004, 11:22 AM) QUOTE However, I'm envious of the gay male ability to say absolutely anything that is on their mind to a woman. P.S. (Ladies, please feel free to correct me if I'm just totally out to lucnch here). No problems with that here... I suspect, MK, that the reason gay men are able to say anything at all to women is mostly that they are not trying to be anything other than friends, and therefore are not compelled to hold back on something for fear that it will ruin their chances at sex or romance. Men and women often hold back and resort to little white lies and half-truths in the interests of keeping the peace in the midst of a love affair (or even a friendship). That doesn't work long term, and in the end hurts the people and the relationship far more than the honest truth would have. That said, I also suspect that at least some women are more accepting of criticism and brutal honesty from other women and gay men than they are from straight men because past experience taught them to see straight men as a threat. I think you may have misunderstood me. I DO say what is on my mind to women, I just don't get away with it as easily as gay dudes do. That's all. If I tell my girlfriend she has put on a few pounds, her clothing is out of style or altogether uninteresting, or that her hair needs help, I get called an asshole. If her gay cousin tells her exactly the same thing, she wants his advise. In that instance, I would say that she is more accepting of advice on her appearance from someone who is not an actual or potential sexual partner. She doesn't want to hear you say you think she's getting fat because she needs you to see her as attractive and sexy. However, a gay guy or another woman is simply a co-conspirator towards the goal of looking sexually attractive to those who she seeks to attract. At least she's not bisexual. Then no one could tell her she's getting fat. Posted by: humanwill Jul 9 2004, 06:36 PM QUOTE (YoungInFaithlessness @ Jun 24 2004, 10:46 PM) QUOTE (spidermonkey @ Jun 24 2004, 10:34 AM) I'll give a definitive answer to this poll when I get the chance to get freaky with another female I put hetero female, but like i said in the other poll, I'm open-minded! Posted by: humanwill Jul 9 2004, 06:46 PM ya'll are such a turn on... Posted by: Grand Atheist Jul 9 2004, 07:09 PM who, other than me, voted bi male? (I have my reasons for wanting to know) Posted by: Lokmer Jul 9 2004, 08:29 PM I *think* it was Kaiser -Lokmer Posted by: Doug2 Jul 10 2004, 11:23 AM QUOTE (Grand Atheist @ Jul 9 2004, 08:09 PM) who, other than me, voted bi male? (I have my reasons for wanting to know) planning an orgy eh? Posted by: Grand Atheist Jul 10 2004, 11:48 AM QUOTE planning an orgy eh? WHO'VE BEEN TALKING TO?! *mutters something about information leakers* Posted by: chrome Jul 10 2004, 10:48 PM I thought the orgy was cancelled due to rain????? Posted by: phoenix Jul 10 2004, 11:11 PM no, it's never cancelled due to rain. hail, yes. (though that's when the masochists come out for the orgy...) Posted by: Libertus Jul 11 2004, 08:10 AM QUOTE (phoenix @ Jul 10 2004, 11:11 PM) no, it's never cancelled due to rain. hail, yes. (though that's when the masochists come out for the orgy...) Posted by: Grand Atheist Jul 11 2004, 11:49 AM QUOTE no, it's never cancelled due to rain. hail, yes. (though that's when the masochists come out for the orgy...) what about... snow? Posted by: Kaiser Soze Jul 13 2004, 01:54 AM Absolutely; one British bi-male here, present and accounted for. Posted by: Lanakila Jul 14 2004, 09:46 AM QUOTE (sexkitten @ Jul 9 2004, 01:13 PM) At least she's not bisexual. Then no one could tell her she's getting fat. LMAO. If she is a woman she isn't blind to the fact, and no one need tell her anything. Gaining weight is hard enough on the ego, the last thing you need is someone telling you that you are fat. When will guys realize this. Women and gay men can say: that outfit makes your ass look a mile wide (if you are friends that is), but saying you are fat to even a female friend is downright offensive. Posted by: Muggy Knubber Jul 14 2004, 09:54 AM Then she shouldn't ask. Posted by: Lanakila Jul 14 2004, 10:59 AM I can't speak for your "she" in question. But I know when I was fat, I didn't want to hear it. I knew it. Damn I had just had a baby, and was wearing clothes 5 sizes bigger than I am now. I never asked. He never said. Posted by: brick Jul 27 2004, 07:26 AM I answered hetero male but I think (without intending offence to the author) that the poll might have been more accurate and interesting if we had to assign a percentage to our straight/gay tendancies. I honestly think that everyone has both in varying quantities. Myself, I am about as straight as my first car: always took me unerringly right down the road but very occasionally developed a small wobble. hehe I think that's about as straight as anybody can be and still be honest. >99% hetero, <1% gay While I can appreciate a good looking guys looks, I haven't felt any attraction to any one in years...and has yet to evolve into lust. Posted by: rainyday8169 Jul 27 2004, 09:32 AM I have experimented with same sex "sex" but I have never had a "relationship" with someone of the same sex. I would say I am a straight woman with an open mind when it comes to sex. Posted by: Muggy Knubber Jul 27 2004, 09:45 AM I too have an open mind when it comes to straight women experimenting with same sex sex. Posted by: rainyday8169 Jul 27 2004, 09:54 AM I think that goes without saying for most men, Muggy Most straight men anyway Posted by: Muggy Knubber Jul 27 2004, 11:05 AM . . . . 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