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Posted by: Yaoi Huntress Earth Dec 19 2004, 11:42 PM

With all the weird kinds of fetishes out there and trying to be open-minded, there's some stuff I just don't get.

-Erotic Suffication: To me, trying to almost kill yourself is not sexy.
-Yiff (furry sex): Maybe it's because I've known some creepy people who are into dressing in fursuits and erotizing animal humaniods. Sure furries can be cute and maybe even sexy at times, but it often goes overboard a lot of times.
-Scat: Ick. Can you imagine the germs?
-People who take their crushes of fictional characters a little too far.: I'll admit that there's some fictional characters I have a bit of a crush on, but you are not dating them nor are you married to them.

Posted by: Asimov Dec 20 2004, 12:38 AM

feet.

Posted by: sexkitten Dec 20 2004, 01:20 AM

I think most sexual fetishes can be fun to play with. And anything fun and sexy can be taken "too far" if it becomes your sexual experience comes to depend upon it.

That said, the only fetish that I don't "get" even in the mild forms is the feces/urine fetishes. Hello, dumbass, remember cholera??? London getting nearly wiped out because of CRAP IN THE WATER?? And you want to smear it on yourself? ARE YOU INSANE?

Posted by: Reach Dec 20 2004, 08:12 AM

QUOTE (Asimov @ Dec 20 2004, 12:38 AM)

feet.

No fetish here but... feet are wonderful, beautiful, fun to play with, sensitive, erotic...

Try again, Asimov? You might have missed something? ;-)

The barefoot girl,
Reach

Posted by: Lokmer Dec 20 2004, 08:20 AM

QUOTE (Reach @ Dec 20 2004, 08:12 AM)

QUOTE (Asimov @ Dec 20 2004, 12:38 AM)

feet.

No fetish here but... feet are wonderful, beautiful, fun to play with, sensitive, erotic...

Try again, Asimov? You might have missed something? ;-)

Yes, Reach, I think he has missed something. Feet are fabulous. Not exactly the end-all of sexual pleasure, but delightfully sensual and tender, quirky-looking yet adorable, and one of the few parts of the body (like the shoulders and neck) that are highly sensual yet non-erotic enough to be appropriate for sharing between friends in massage and play (tickling, pranks, toenail painting, foot-wrestling).

Wonderful things, feet. I keep mine naked as much as possible

-Lokmer

Posted by: sexkitten Dec 20 2004, 08:26 AM

QUOTE (Lokmer @ Dec 20 2004, 08:20 AM)

QUOTE (Reach @ Dec 20 2004, 08:12 AM)

QUOTE (Asimov @ Dec 20 2004, 12:38 AM)

feet.

No fetish here but... feet are wonderful, beautiful, fun to play with, sensitive, erotic...

Try again, Asimov? You might have missed something? ;-)

-Lokmer

Toes are especially wonderful.

Posted by: Reach Dec 20 2004, 08:26 AM

QUOTE (Lokmer @ Dec 20 2004, 08:20 AM)

Wonderful things, feet. I keep mine naked as much as possible

-Lokmer

That's most healthy.

The only times I wear shoes are when the weather outside, safety considerations or social propriety demand it.

Posted by: Java Dec 20 2004, 11:04 AM

QUOTE (Yaoi Huntress Earth @ Dec 20 2004, 02:42 AM)

-Erotic Suffication: To me, trying to almost kill yourself is not sexy.
-People who take their crushes of fictional characters a little too far.: I'll admit that there's some fictional characters I have a bit of a crush on, but you are not dating them nor are you married to them.

Number 1: I don't get why I'm sexually aroused by hanging - but the weird thing is, it's NOT the asphyxiation part. It's the dangling... if that makes any sense at all.

#2: Uh, so fantasizing while jilling off to some cute fictional character is bad? ;_;

Posted by: sexkitten Dec 20 2004, 11:30 AM

QUOTE (Java @ Dec 20 2004, 11:04 AM)

QUOTE (Yaoi Huntress Earth @ Dec 20 2004, 02:42 AM)

-People who take their crushes of fictional characters a little too far.: I'll admit that there's some fictional characters I have a bit of a crush on, but you are not dating them nor are you married to them.

#2: Uh, so fantasizing while jilling off to some cute fictional character is bad? ;_;

Only when you make your dude shave his head and say "Make it so" in an English accent before you will even kiss him.

Posted by: sexkitten Dec 20 2004, 11:51 AM

QUOTE (sexkitten @ Dec 20 2004, 01:20 AM)

Ok, I lied. There's one other sexual fetish I don't get and that is young men going w/out protection with HIV+ or unknown male partners in an attempt to catch the virus. If you are feeling suicidal, there are far quicker and less annoying ways to die. I don't get the sexual thrill in exposing oneself to a long lasting, painful, debillitating terminal illness with no cure.

Posted by: Asimov Dec 20 2004, 12:10 PM

QUOTE (Reach @ Dec 20 2004, 08:12 AM)

QUOTE (Asimov @ Dec 20 2004, 12:38 AM)

feet.

No fetish here but... feet are wonderful, beautiful, fun to play with, sensitive, erotic...

Try again, Asimov? You might have missed something? ;-)

The barefoot girl,
Reach

That's the thing, Reach. I can understand why people think feet are wonderful, beautiful, and fun to play with, etc.

what I don't get is someone going apeshit over feet!

"Oh yea.....lemme fuck your feet!!! Oooooooh your feet are sooo hot!! "

You know...that sort of thing.

Posted by: ~Dhampir:~ Dec 20 2004, 03:52 PM

QUOTE (Yaoi Huntress Earth)

I was on that trip real real hard when I was a little kid. But I don't think it could be considered a fetish back then.

I am reading this one book now, and while I don't have a crush on any of the characters, I feel so strongly for the unrequited love of the main character (he btw, doesn't seem to care that much) that I can't seem to go ten minutes without thinking about it.

Posted by: Asimov Dec 20 2004, 07:05 PM

QUOTE (~Dhampir:~ @ Dec 20 2004, 03:52 PM)

[QUOTE=Yaoi Huntress Earth]-People who take their crushes of fictional characters a little too far.: I'll admit that there's some fictional characters I have a bit of a crush on, but you are not dating them nor are you married to them. [/QUOTE] I was on that trip real real hard when I was a little kid. But I don't think it could be considered a fetish back then.[/quote]

I love Jessica Rabbit.

Posted by: the elemental Dec 21 2004, 03:12 PM

QUOTE (Reach @ Dec 20 2004, 08:12 AM)

QUOTE (Asimov @ Dec 20 2004, 12:38 AM)

feet.

No fetish here but... feet are wonderful, beautiful, fun to play with, sensitive, erotic...

Try again, Asimov? You might have missed something? ;-)

The barefoot girl,
Reach

Here here!

And for a bit of clarification, are we discussing the classical definition of fetish or the common one? The classical one includes the notion that you can't get off without the object of desire. The common one seems to be just anything that not everyone enjoys or would define as sexual.

I love feet and legs, and I love having them involved in erotic moments, but I do not need them to get off, nor do I want to look at a women's feet alone any more than I'd want to look at breasts, butt, eyes, or any other body part in isolation. Sex is too much of a comprehensive experience for that.

Posted by: spidermonkey Dec 21 2004, 03:46 PM

QUOTE (Reach @ Dec 20 2004, 11:12 AM)

QUOTE (Asimov @ Dec 20 2004, 12:38 AM)

feet.

No fetish here but... feet are wonderful, beautiful, fun to play with, sensitive, erotic...

Try again, Asimov? You might have missed something? ;-)

The barefoot girl,
Reach

YES! Somebody GETS it!

~Spidey
(who likes getting her toes sucked)

Posted by: Asimov Dec 21 2004, 05:01 PM

QUOTE (spidermonkey @ Dec 21 2004, 03:46 PM)

QUOTE (Reach @ Dec 20 2004, 11:12 AM)

QUOTE (Asimov @ Dec 20 2004, 12:38 AM)

feet.

No fetish here but... feet are wonderful, beautiful, fun to play with, sensitive, erotic...

Try again, Asimov? You might have missed something? ;-)

The barefoot girl,
Reach

YES! Somebody GETS it!

~Spidey
(who likes getting her toes sucked)

I'd suck on toes, as long as they're clean!

I don't need to be spitting out toe jam, and I don't think that would be erotic.

Posted by: Shadfox Dec 21 2004, 05:17 PM

Sex involving food grosses me out.

Posted by: Yaoi Huntress Earth Dec 21 2004, 07:44 PM

There are some places banannas just shouldn't go? *laughs* Though dripping booze or chocolate on a dude's chest and licking it off is something I've always wanted to try.

Posted by: Asimov Dec 21 2004, 09:25 PM

I'm a man, and I have a chest.

Sex with foods would be interesting...

certain foods wouldn't go well though....like chili

Posted by: luck mermaid Dec 21 2004, 10:06 PM

QUOTE

I don't need to be spitting out toe jam, and I don't think that would be erotic.

Obviously, you're repressed.

Posted by: LloydDobler Dec 21 2004, 10:43 PM

Shad, you must be thinking of the wrong food. Who in their right mind does not enjoy:

Whipped cream (the canned, reddi-whip stuff)
Pudding
Hershey's syrup
Most fresh fruit
peanut butter

You don't actually do sexual things with the food, you mostly use it as an excuse to lick or chew on body parts. If that still grosses you out, then I dunno man, to each their own.

Posted by: LadyAttis Dec 22 2004, 09:18 AM

I just don't get the whole sex thing... And as for Yiff, try Doug Winger and his shemale and hermaphrodite cartoons. Being TG and all I think it's neat he covers the concept but.....it's so -bleeping- gross with the whole thing.... Like shemales well ummm yiffing their boyfriends and etc... o_O I use to be a furry, still am to a point but woooooo I'm not going look at Doug Winger without thinking, this chap needs a need serious screw job by Pam Anderson or somethin.... O_o

-- Bridget

Posted by: Zoe Grace Dec 23 2004, 02:39 AM

QUOTE (Yaoi Huntress Earth @ Dec 19 2004, 11:42 PM)

lol but I love spike. besides, in a lucid dream i can get some pretty hot vampire action going ;)

Posted by: MonkeyBoy Dec 23 2004, 04:28 AM

QUOTE ("Yaoi Huntress Earth @ Dec 19 2004 @ 11:42 PM")

With all the weird kinds of fetishes out there and trying to be open-minded, there's some stuff I just don't get.

-Erotic Suffication: To me, trying to almost kill yourself is not sexy.

I have never hung myself, but I tried something oncve and never looked back.
At the moment of climax, I take a deep breath and hold it as long as I can. The experience is intensified to the point of madness. I'm not sure that qualifies as the same thing (I don's hang from a swing or a noose), but I think the effect is simular.

QUOTE ("Yaoi Huntress Earth @ Dec 19 2004 @ 11:42 PM")

-Yiff (furry sex): Maybe it's because I've known some creepy people who are into dressing in fursuits and erotizing animal humaniods. Sure furries can be cute and maybe even sexy at times, but it often goes overboard a lot of times.

I read about this on somethingawful.com; I don't get it either.

QUOTE ("Yaoi Huntress Earth @ Dec 19 2004 @ 11:42 PM")

-Scat: Ick. Can you imagine the germs?
-People who take their crushes of fictional characters a little too far.: I'll admit that there's some fictional characters I have a bit of a crush on, but you are not dating them nor are you married to them.

Poop is not sexy.

Posted by: Yaoi Huntress Earth Dec 23 2004, 03:24 PM

Maybe I've been a little hard about the imaginary character thing. It's just when people take it WAY too far as in claiming that they're married to them or obsessing about them constantly that it gets annouying.

Posted by: Yaoi Huntress Earth Dec 23 2004, 03:29 PM

QUOTE (MonkeyBoy @ Dec 23 2004, 04:28 AM)

QUOTE ("Yaoi Huntress Earth @ Dec 19 2004 @ 11:42 PM")

I read about this on somethingawful.com; I don't get it either.

You saw that video, too? God, that was creepy.

Posted by: LadyAttis Dec 24 2004, 12:24 AM

ROFL!!!!!

-- Bridget

Posted by: I Broke Free Dec 25 2004, 08:17 AM

About ten years ago I “briefly” dated a guy back in San Francisco who was into “casting.” No, his fetish was not a desire to decide who plays what role in a Broadway production; he was attracted to men in casts and having casts on himself. He even had cast-parties where men into the same fetish would wrap each other up. Some preferred just a leg or arm cast, but others were turned on by full-body casts. (No I never witnessed one of these events or got personally involved.)

He told me that most people into the fetish have similar stories of how they witnessed people in casts as a child getting attention and then somehow their minds equated that in a sexual way. The fetish is quite well represented on the web for anyone who cares to look. Until I met him, I had never heard of it before. By all outward appearances, he was not unusual at all. In fact he was a successful dentist.

http://www.castfetish.com/pictures.html

Posted by: Shadfox Dec 25 2004, 08:21 AM

Tentacle sex. I heard that's really big in Japan.

Posted by: LadyAttis Dec 25 2004, 03:30 PM

Yea... o_O Like WTF is that when I turn on a anime pr0n0! o_O

-- Bridget

Posted by: starseyer Jan 8 2005, 05:12 PM

QUOTE (sexkitten @ Dec 20 2004, 02:30 PM)

QUOTE (Java @ Dec 20 2004, 11:04 AM)

QUOTE (Yaoi Huntress Earth @ Dec 20 2004, 02:42 AM)

#2: Uh, so fantasizing while jilling off to some cute fictional character is bad? ;_;

Only when you make your dude shave his head and say "Make it so" in an English accent before you will even kiss him.

Posted by: Ashlynn Jan 8 2005, 05:28 PM

QUOTE

There are some places banannas just shouldn't go? *laughs*.

Even this one.

user posted image

Posted by: Yaoi Huntress Earth Jan 8 2005, 07:10 PM

I remembered another one: anaorexic porn. These people are suffering and slowly dieing. How is that sexy?

Posted by: ~Dhampir:~ Jan 9 2005, 11:27 AM

I dig tentacle sex. don't know why, but I do.

Posted by: Mr. Neil Jan 9 2005, 11:39 AM

QUOTE (sexkitten @ Dec 20 2004, 04:20 AM)

That said, the only fetish that I don't "get" even in the mild forms is the feces/urine fetishes. Hello, dumbass, remember cholera??? London getting nearly wiped out because of CRAP IN THE WATER?? And you want to smear it on yourself? ARE YOU INSANE?

Exactly! That's the first thing I thought of. It just grosses me out. If ever dated a girl like that, she'd be instantly dumped.

Posted by: woodsmoke Jan 10 2005, 12:31 PM

Um... *raises hand*

I like boobs.

Okay, so maybe that's not a fetish. Some might even think of it as boring, until you consider just how many things can be done with two willing partners and a pair of breasts between them.

Posted by: Mr. Neil Jan 10 2005, 12:49 PM

I usually consider myself a leg-and-thigh kind of guy. I like legs. Long legs. I've always been rather indifferent about boobs. in fact, for a while, I was sure that I had no interest in them whatsoever.
However, I changed my tune about boobs the very first time I had a pair jiggling in front of my face. They may not be very interesting in a magazine, but they sure are mesmerizing when they're up close and in person!

Posted by: ~Dhampir:~ Jan 10 2005, 03:59 PM

I happen to be of the opinion that the bulge of a woman's well-shaped thigh has the potential to be more obscene than even a breast.

Yeh. I'm a leg man too.

Posted by: notblindedbytheblight Jan 11 2005, 12:43 PM

QUOTE (MonkeyBoy @ Dec 23 2004, 04:28 AM)

QUOTE ("Yaoi Huntress Earth @ Dec 19 2004 @ 11:42 PM")

With all the weird kinds of fetishes out there and trying to be open-minded, there's some stuff I just don't get.

-Erotic Suffication: To me, trying to almost kill yourself is not sexy.

Yes! That what I said one other time. It's like being on the verge of losing consciousness. You lose identity and self-awareness...oh, and the light and all the little voices...

Posted by: notblindedbytheblight Jan 11 2005, 12:45 PM

QUOTE (Mr. Neil @ Jan 9 2005, 11:39 AM)

QUOTE (sexkitten @ Dec 20 2004, 04:20 AM)

Exactly! That's the first thing I thought of. It just grosses me out. If ever dated a girl like that, she'd be instantly dumped.

...instantly dumped!

Posted by: Zoe Grace Jan 12 2005, 08:33 PM

QUOTE (Mr. Neil @ Jan 10 2005, 12:49 PM)

lol neil...tom is the EXACT same way. he's a leg man. Said he knew the moment he met me I had great legs under those pants lol. And he wasn't fascinated with boobs until they were jiggling in his face lol.