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Posted by: JP1283 Jan 20 2005, 10:46 PM
Hi everybody,

Now I am gay but I am sort of fascinated with the female orgasm. I have never witnessed myself the female orgasm so could someone describe it to me? Is there squirting action, does it smell/taste like anything...what happens?

Posted by: Fweethawt Jan 20 2005, 10:53 PM
I could answer all of your questions but, for some reason, even I have this 'fine line' that I don't like to cross. GONZ9729CustomImage1539775.gif wicked.gif GONZ9729CustomImage1539775.gif


I'm sure someone will be along to help you out though. FrogsToadBigGrin.gif woohoo.gif FrogsToadBigGrin.gif

Posted by: JP1283 Jan 20 2005, 10:57 PM
I can see you blushing! GONZ9729CustomImage1539775.gif

Posted by: LloydDobler Jan 20 2005, 10:58 PM
I hear it feels great.

Posted by: GreyGirl Jan 20 2005, 11:06 PM
I certainly enjoy it wicked.gif

Squirting is possible, but rare. Taste depends on the woman.

Posted by: Cerise Jan 20 2005, 11:12 PM
QUOTE (JP1283 @ Jan 20 2005, 10:46 PM)
Is there squirting action

not for me

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does it smell


not really

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taste like anything


depends on what you've been eating/drinking, but generally tastes like a lot of nothing with a little bit of salt.

Posted by: Lanakila Jan 21 2005, 02:36 AM
We could describe for you the female orgasm and yet all of us experience it a little differently, and every orgasm isn't the same. I think a google search for the medical description would probably be more informative. The squirting or female ejaculation is something that is rare and caused by just the right amount of pressure on the g-spot which is located on the upper part of the vagina about an inch and a half inside. The intensity of my orgasms depends on many factors including: day in my cycle, emotional well-being, how turned on I am before ect. In other words it varies highly, but time in my cycle is the most telling factor in both desire and orgasmic intensity.

Posted by: Zach Jan 21 2005, 04:56 AM
I think we'll completely understand the female orgasm right after we prove that God exists.

Posted by: Mo Biggsley Jan 21 2005, 05:23 AM
QUOTE (JP1283 @ Jan 20 2005, 10:46 PM)
Hi everybody,

Now I am gay but I am sort of fascinated with the female orgasm.  I have never witnessed myself the female orgasm so could someone describe it to me?  Is there squirting action, does it smell/taste like anything...what happens?

Depends if she's really having one or just faking so you'll stop trying to get her to come.

For authentic female orgasms every woman is different. Some shake, some moan, some tighten all of their muscles, some squirt, some get very ticklish, some get any combination of the above, and I'm sure I've left out many other examples of what women do.

What does it feel like for me when she has an orgasm? It feels like being kicked out before I've had the chance to finish. It feels like two feet pushing me the hell off so she can enjoy the sensation. Women become super strong when they come and are very adept at shoving a man, no matter how much he outweighs her, away so she can proceed to wrap a sheet or blanket around her face or hide under a pillow. The best thing a man can do if this happens is go to find something else to do and hope she gets back in the mood soon, or go finish in private.

Posted by: non conformist Jan 21 2005, 07:14 AM
Mo, your perspective is funny as hell!

I'm one of the rare females that can make myself come at the drop of a hat. I don't know what it is, but with just a few flicks, licks and thrusts, I'm gone. Most times, at least with my fiance, I have multiples. Before him, not so much.

The girls here have described it correctly. Orgasms vary from woman to woman. I had sex with this girl once, that the only way I knew she was having an orgasm was by the way her leg shook. It kinda vibrated. That was it. I'm very vocal, and I just yell, "I'm coming, baby". If I masturbate in front of my fiance, I make sure I put his finger inside while I'm having an orgasm so that he knows what it feels like. I guess what I'm saying is, you might have to do some research with some gal pal if you're really interested. Have her do that, and you'll know at least what it's like for her. It it's icky to you, you know, the thought of a vagina anywhere near you, than read the thread and take our word for it.

Orgasms are fun cloud9_99.gif

Posted by: Mo Biggsley Jan 21 2005, 07:41 AM
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I'm one of the rare females that can make myself come at the drop of a hat.


It's not fair that when a woman has that ability, the perception is that she is a "rare female," but when a man has the same ability, the perception is that he is a "bad lay" or a "dude who jerks off too much."

Posted by: non conformist Jan 21 2005, 08:30 AM
QUOTE (Mo Biggsley @ Jan 21 2005, 10:41 AM)
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I'm one of the rare females that can make myself come at the drop of a hat.


It's not fair that when a woman has that ability, the perception is that she is a "rare female," but when a man has the same ability, the perception is that he is a "bad lay" or a "dude who jerks off too much."

The difference is that I can keep on fucking after I've had an orgasm. I take pleasure in pleasing so I would never stop until my partner is satisfied. When a guy cums too fast, it's usually a done deal, and by the time he can get it up again, I'm no longer interested. That makes him "a bad lay". If he cums, keeps it up, and can continue until I'm done, then he's a great lay.

Posted by: Mo Biggsley Jan 21 2005, 09:10 AM
I know, but it's still not fair

Posted by: spidermonkey Jan 21 2005, 09:25 AM
Apparently I've squirted in this one dude's mouth before. It was more of a dribble than a squirt.

My girlcum was a little bit salty, which is a change from my normally sweet nether regions.

Posted by: non conformist Jan 21 2005, 09:54 AM
Girl cum tastes Grrrrreat!! I've never had a girl squirt me. I know about the dribble, SM. Pussy Juice is awesome! Be it mine or someone else's. I told my man to make a facial mask out of mine once; he thought it was hilarious, but he gave me that "you're really sick look". It's ok for him to want to cum on my face, right?! Damned double standards! bj.gif

Posted by: Mo Biggsley Jan 21 2005, 10:01 AM
i'll never understand why some guys say they are squeamish about a wet pussy. it just doesn't seem right that a hetero male wouldn't be turned on by that.

Posted by: non conformist Jan 21 2005, 10:55 AM
Oh, he likes it wet, don't get me wrong....we would not be getting married if he couldn't handle something so trivial....

I think that when I said "facial mask" he pictured cucumber slices or something. I don't know....it was just funny.

Posted by: Mo Biggsley Jan 21 2005, 10:59 AM
cucumber slices?

Posted by: Mo Biggsley Jan 21 2005, 11:06 AM
i've never seen you giggle before.

Posted by: The Acid Washed Messiah Jan 21 2005, 11:18 AM
QUOTE (rainyday8169 @ Jan 21 2005, 11:01 AM)
*giggles*

Most disturbing post by you. Ever.

Posted by: Mo Biggsley Jan 21 2005, 11:30 AM
is that like "heh-heh," "ha-ha," "HA-ha," or "ha-HA!" ?

Posted by: The Acid Washed Messiah Jan 21 2005, 11:44 AM
QUOTE (rainyday8169 @ Jan 21 2005, 11:25 AM)
ok I didnt actually giggle
It was more like an evil chuckle

Glad to hear it.

I don't know what I would do in a world where Rainys were just running around giggling.

Posted by: bob Jan 21 2005, 12:07 PM
While we are on the subject guys and gals, I have from time to time wondered why females even have an orgasm.

If we are created beings, why would the creator give the female this wonderful sensation if it is not necessary in procreation?

If we evolved, why would females develope this wonderful sensation if it is not necessary for procreation?

Any ideas?

Posted by: The Acid Washed Messiah Jan 21 2005, 12:11 PM
Nah... it's because God delights in tempting his creations.

It's like teasing a dog with a treat, but it's only the atheists who ever manage to bite back.

Posted by: Mo Biggsley Jan 21 2005, 12:11 PM
as often as what?

Posted by: The Acid Washed Messiah Jan 21 2005, 12:16 PM
Probably as often as once?

Posted by: bob Jan 21 2005, 12:23 PM
QUOTE (rainyday8169 @ Jan 21 2005, 12:09 PM)
the "wonderful sensation" is a must for without it  women wouldnt want to have sex as often
(maybe)
But in some relationships, (in the past anyway) for either emotional or physical reasons, some women seldom if ever achieved an orgasm, and just went through the motions for their man, and still managed to pump out the kids.
Looking at it from a strictly physical, primitive point of view, it would appear that the the big "O" for the ladies is completely unnecessary.
In the animal world, do the female of the species experience what human females do? I don't know.

Posted by: The Acid Washed Messiah Jan 21 2005, 12:27 PM
Maybe you should do an experiment? See my "Lonely Rancher" thread if you need some inspiration...

Posted by: Mo Biggsley Jan 21 2005, 12:47 PM
It's not Bob's logic. Scientists have asked that question for years trying to explain something that is both natural and seemingly not 100% practical, like male nipples.

Posted by: Mo Biggsley Jan 21 2005, 01:03 PM
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I think the whole "sex is only for procreation" idea is extremely flawed


i agree. but there are still a lot of people who try to rationalize nature with that same logic. while they are at it, i wanna know why i have nipples.

Posted by: notblindedbytheblight Jan 21 2005, 01:03 PM
QUOTE (bob @ Jan 21 2005, 12:07 PM)
While we are on the subject guys and gals, I have from time to time wondered why females even have an orgasm.

If we are created beings, why would the creator give the female this wonderful sensation if it is not necessary in procreation?

If we evolved, why would females develope this wonderful sensation if it is not necessary for procreation?

Any ideas?

If the creater gave it to human females then he also gave it to female apes.

Here is a little something I found:

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Such a pattern of moderate infidelity is indicated by the existence of 'kamazaze' blocking sperm in humans, the intermediate physiology of human testes between the promiscuous chimp and polygynous but non-promiscuous gorilla, the sperm-retentive nature of female orgasm and the existence of the concealed oestrus itself, which is clearly a form of 'evolutionary female empowerment' which could have evolved only in a context in which female sexual choice was an ongoing reality, putting the female in Matt Ridley's words 'one step ahead of the male'. It is also consistent with the privacy of sexual relations which make it virtually impossible to detect covert infidelity.


And this:

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Like the chimp, heterosexual sex in bonobos is associated with estrus, but abonobo female spends more of her cycle in sexually receptive mode than her chimpanzeecousin. Bonobo mating is largely promiscuous, so paternity is rarely assured.The techniques of bonobo sex give the impression that some ancient bonobo hadmemorized a human sex manual and tried everything out. In the bonobo’s life, sexbegins long before puberty and involves a number of different positions (among them, theinfamous missionary position), genital stimulation by hands, and overt oral sex. Andbonobo sex is not strictly of the hetero variety. Two female bonobos will engage inhoka-hoka, the local African phrase for genito-genital rubbing. The two lie together inthe missionary position, bring their clitorises together, and move their hips quickly fromside to side. Hoka-Hoka ends, as Wrangham and Peterson (1996, p. 210) state, “withmutual screams, clutching limbs, muscular contractions, and a tense, still moment. It looks like orgasm."

Posted by: Mo Biggsley Jan 21 2005, 01:05 PM
so it's a primate thing?

Posted by: notblindedbytheblight Jan 21 2005, 01:15 PM
QUOTE (Mo Biggsley @ Jan 21 2005, 01:05 PM)
so it's a primate thing?

I heard that apes were the only other animal besides humans that the female could orgasm. And when I go to search for that on google, I get so many sites that I could get fired for looking at. Can't sort through them here! FrogsToadBigGrin.gif

Posted by: phoenix Jan 21 2005, 01:17 PM
QUOTE (bob @ Jan 21 2005, 03:07 PM)
While we are on the subject guys and gals, I have from time to time wondered why females even have an orgasm.

If we are created beings, why would the creator give the female this wonderful sensation if it is not necessary in procreation?

If we evolved, why would females develope this wonderful sensation if it is not necessary for procreation?

Any ideas?

i've read that when a woman orgasms, she's more likely to concieve.
i don't remember how that works. Wendytwitch.gif i'll have to remember to google that and post it.

Posted by: The Acid Washed Messiah Jan 21 2005, 01:19 PM
I know that dolphins have recreational sex.

Posted by: notblindedbytheblight Jan 21 2005, 01:19 PM
QUOTE (rainyday8169 @ Jan 21 2005, 01:18 PM)
I thought dolphins could also

Probably so...cool.

Posted by: notblindedbytheblight Jan 21 2005, 01:21 PM
QUOTE (phoenix @ Jan 21 2005, 01:17 PM)
QUOTE (bob @ Jan 21 2005, 03:07 PM)
While we are on the subject guys and gals, I have from time to time wondered why females even have an orgasm. 

If we are created beings, why would the creator give the female this wonderful sensation if it is not necessary in procreation?

If we evolved, why would females develope this wonderful sensation if it is not necessary for procreation?

Any ideas?

i've read that when a woman orgasms, she's more likely to concieve.
i don't remember how that works. Wendytwitch.gif i'll have to remember to google that and post it.

The one site that I posted a little excerpt earlier said that the female orgasm has a retentive nature.

I don't know the reliability of the source, it was just a quick search.

Posted by: non conformist Jan 21 2005, 01:24 PM
Maybe sex's only purpose is not procreation.

The Good Lord gave women the ability to have orgasms because....well, I really am nobody to question GOD. It's probably part of His Master Plan fundies like to talk so much about. It's probably in the Bible.

Posted by: Mo Biggsley Jan 21 2005, 01:39 PM
get down dolphin style. hell yeah.

Posted by: Lokmer Jan 21 2005, 01:50 PM
QUOTE (notblindedbytheblight @ Jan 21 2005, 01:21 PM)
QUOTE (phoenix @ Jan 21 2005, 01:17 PM)
i've read that when a woman orgasms, she's more likely to concieve.i don't remember how that works.  Wendytwitch.gif i'll have to remember to google that and post it.

The one site that I posted a little excerpt earlier said that the female orgasm has a retentive nature.

I don't know the reliability of the source, it was just a quick search.

This is true. The mechanics work like this:

When a woman has an orgasm, her vagina contracts and the cervix dips down into the seminal pool left by the man. The pressure of the contractions help force the semen through the cervix and into the vagina, thus speeding the sperm along their way.

Hope that helps!

-Lokmer

Posted by: notblindedbytheblight Jan 21 2005, 01:59 PM
QUOTE (Lokmer @ Jan 21 2005, 01:50 PM)
QUOTE (notblindedbytheblight @ Jan 21 2005, 01:21 PM)
QUOTE (phoenix @ Jan 21 2005, 01:17 PM)
i've read that when a woman orgasms, she's more likely to concieve.i don't remember how that works.   Wendytwitch.gif i'll have to remember to google that and post it.

The one site that I posted a little excerpt earlier said that the female orgasm has a retentive nature.

I don't know the reliability of the source, it was just a quick search.

This is true. The mechanics work like this:

When a woman has an orgasm, her vagina contracts and the cervix dips down into the seminal pool left by the man. The pressure of the contractions help force the semen through the cervix and into the vagina, thus speeding the sperm along their way.

Hope that helps!

-Lokmer

Whoo-hoo!

Posted by: Anomalie Jan 21 2005, 05:11 PM
Hoka-hoka Is a Great word!!!! Cryotanknotworthy.gif

Posted by: Mr. Neil Jan 22 2005, 11:30 AM
This... This is the greatest topic ever.

Posted by: ficino Jan 22 2005, 12:37 PM
Albert Kinsey, Masters and Johson, as well as certain female friends of mine have said that many women only experience clitoral orgasm. But there are others who say this is just due to those women's ignorance of the G-spot or of how it works. Anyone have an opinion about that?

I've also had questions similar to Bob's, i.e. I don't see how fundy theology explains why god gave women a clitoris.

(Of course, I don't see how fundy theology explains why God didn't create three human genders to match the Trinity... )

Posted by: bob Jan 22 2005, 01:05 PM
QUOTE (ficino @ Jan 22 2005, 12:37 PM)
Albert Kinsey, Masters and Johson, as well as certain female friends of mine have said that many women only experience clitoral orgasm.  But there are others who say this is just due to those women's ignorance of the G-spot or of how it works.  Anyone have an opinion about that?
Many years ago I managed to give my wife an orgasm just by sucking on and stimulating her nipples with my tongue. We both kept our hands away from her pussy just as a foreplay experiment. Turned out to be more than foreplay wicked.gif .

Posted by: non conformist Jan 24 2005, 07:06 AM
QUOTE (bob @ Jan 22 2005, 04:05 PM)
QUOTE (ficino @ Jan 22 2005, 12:37 PM)
Albert Kinsey, Masters and Johson, as well as certain female friends of mine have said that many women only experience clitoral orgasm.  But there are others who say this is just due to those women's ignorance of the G-spot or of how it works.  Anyone have an opinion about that?
Many years ago I managed to give my wife an orgasm just by sucking on and stimulating her nipples with my tongue. We both kept our hands away from her pussy just as a foreplay experiment. Turned out to be more than foreplay wicked.gif .

HOLY SHIT!!! I thought I was the only one that happened to!! I didn't reach full orgasm, but I was damn close!

I know a lot of women who, for some reason or other, don't explore their bodies and don't even know where their g-spot is. This is VERY important. You have to know your body, then you relay this information to your partner, and you'll both be happier.

I've read about the cervix sort of suctioning the sperm inside the uterus. It was also part of that gross movie they show you in high shcool about the conception and birth of a baby.

And Mo your nipples are there for decoration; and for girls to lick, flick, suck, blow, and bite. If anything, they're the knobs that get your dick hard. So they serve some sort of purpose.

Hi ficino!

Posted by: Mo Biggsley Jan 24 2005, 07:24 AM
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And Mo your nipples are there for decoration; and for girls to lick, flick, suck, blow, and bite. If anything, they're the knobs that get your dick hard. So they serve some sort of purpose.


Hmmm. Doesn't get me hard and they don't produce milk either (thankfully). Pretty useless if ya ask me. I once asked God why (S)He gave me nipples and God reponded with a resounding:

". . . . "

then I asked God why (S)He put me here and God left no doubt with this response:

". . . ."

then I asked God what my purpose in life was and (S)He thundered from on high:

". . . ."

then I asked God why Cheri Magazine put those little stars to hide penetration and God roared:

". . . ."

So there really is no reason for me to question my existance, why I have nipples, or why Cheri places a star over pictures of penetration but has no problem showing women covered in splooge.

Posted by: The Acid Washed Messiah Jan 24 2005, 07:27 AM
QUOTE (non conformist)
And Mo your nipples are there for decoration; and for girls to lick, flick, suck, blow, and bite. If anything, they're the knobs that get your dick hard. So they serve some sort of purpose.
They're great to hang metal from when you're a rebellious teenager.

They don't do anything for my erection, though. By the time my nipples make their appearance, I'm already hard.

Also, Cheri stopped with the stars. They still won't show anal though... only Hustler will do that.

Posted by: Mo Biggsley Jan 24 2005, 07:35 AM
QUOTE (The Acid Washed Messiah @ Jan 24 2005, 07:27 AM)
QUOTE (non conformist)
And Mo your nipples are there for decoration; and for girls to lick, flick, suck, blow, and bite. If anything, they're the knobs that get your dick hard. So they serve some sort of purpose.
They're great to hang metal from when you're a rebellious teenager.

They don't do anything for my erection, though. By the time my nipples make their appearance, I'm already hard.

Also, Cheri stopped with the stars. They still won't show anal though... only Hustler will do that.

Dear God:

Why couldn't Cheri have stopped with the stars when I was 14?

". . . ."

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